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An Irish immigrant’s odyssey

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Now Stout’s daughter was missing and police officers, following up on a tip, arrived on Stout’s back porch. They asked Stout if she had a photograph of her daughter. When they looked at it, they asked her to come down to the morgue. Stout said she nearly collapsed. Husband Willie Stout went and identified his daughter’s body.

Stout said her daughter had been stabbed 38 times by a robber who got only $20.

“That night I ran and got the children, and I promised to keep them together,” Stout said. “My daughter had been getting relief checks and I sent them back because I didn’t want nobody to think I had my grandchildren just for the money. But the (caseworker) told me to come back if I ever needed help.”

Because Deborah Stout was a single parent, Stout won custody of her grandchildren, then ages 1 through 12. They crowded into their grandparents’ apartment, sleeping in beds, on a pullout sofa and on pallets made of blankets.

Willie Stout was a handyman while his wife worked part time as an office assistant for a real estate company. She also earned money at the former International Amphitheatre, charging a dollar apiece to watch customers’ parked cars. She said life continued this way until Willie Stout died four days before Christmas in 1996.

Despite Stout’s confrontations with the nuns as a child, she never lost faith in the Catholic Church. She said her husband had wanted their grandchildren raised as Protestants, but she felt differently.

“When Willie died, I made his funeral arrangements,” Stout said. “And then I marched right over to the church and made arrangements to have the kids baptized Catholic. I got them ready for their first Communions and confirmations, too.”

Stout believed it was divine intervention when Sister Mary Jane Feil was in Back of the Yards one afternoon and asked a neighbor if anyone else in the community was down and out. The neighbor sent her to Stout’s apartment.

Feil works with The Port Ministries, a non-church-affiliated group that helps the poor. She and volunteer Dorothy Balicki began visiting Stout and helping with groceries, clothes for the children and Christmas gifts. A relative of Feil’s paid the tuition for four of the children to attend Catholic school.

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